Such is life.

I don't know how to write this properly, but I feel compelled to write.

A very good friend sadly and unexpectedly lost someone close to him. He was a good person and he always left a good impression on us whenever we met. We would like to send our deepest condolences for your loss.

The death of anyone, especially someone you know, is always a jolt to your soul. You are reminded of just how precious life is, and all the people that make it colourful. You are also reminded of how abruptly it can end, and that every moment along the way should be savoured.

You are awoken to all that has just transpired in your life, hoping that your wrongs have been righted. You hope that loved ones know your feelings; know they are special in your life and loved. You realise how small and trivial some recent problems actually are, and that life should not be wasted on that. You hope that mates know you are a mate and you are ever so grateful for them in your life.

What kind of impression will I leave on people when I am gone? Have I been a good person? I can't help but ask myself these questions at times like these.

So, to the good friend who has just had to experience the unbearable sadness of loss, we are thinking of you. I'm sure he has moved to somewhere even more beautiful than here. As Tolkien softly put it,

"End? No, the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path, one that we all must take. The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all turns to silver glass, and then you see it... white shores, and beyond, a far green country under a swift sunrise."

(Gandalf, The Lord of the Rings)

I'm sure he is still watching from afar, and will until you meet up again. He will be with you all just like the light pouring through stained glass windows and filling the room with its presence. I'm sure he is proud and grateful for your part in his life, and willing you to continue passing on your love to your family.

Mate, our bodies may be continents apart, but our feelings know no boundaries. Our thoughts are with you and your family.